Years ago, I asked God to send me a wife, for the Bible says, “You have not because you ask not.” I told the Lord not just that I wanted a wife but even explained to him the kind of wife I was looking for.
I told him I wanted someone who is kind, tender, gentle, compassionate, loving, sincere, peaceful, generous, affectionate, understanding, passionate, warm, intelligent, humorous, sensual and trustful. I even mentioned the things I wanted her to be physically. And as time passed, I would add more things to this list of my heart desire for a wife.
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Then one night in prayer, God spoke to my heart and said, “Son
I cannot give you what you've asked me for.”
He replied, “Then I will explain. It would not be just and right for me to grant to you your wish for I cannot give unto you something that you are not yourself. It would not be fair for me to grant unto you a person that is loving if you can sometimes be hateful, or someone that is kind if you can also be mean, someone that is a forgiver and yet you can still carry a grudge, someone that is sensitive and you are yet so insensitive... etc.”
He said unto me, “Instead of wasting time trying to find someone or hoping that I will give you someone with all these qualities you seek, you should rather allow me to take this time to allow you to become all it is that you are looking for. I cannot give to you someone which you are not.”
“And if you allow me to work up on your spirit and to shape and mould your heart as I choose then when you see the one I have for you, you will be able to say like Adam said, ‘She is bone of my bone and she is flesh of my flesh.’ for you will see yourself in her for you both will be one flesh.”
Keep this in mind.
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God made woman from man's rib –
Whether or not you believe in God, much of the above still applies.
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